“Picking up girls can be as easy as opening a beer!” February 29, 2008
Posted by Niels in : Dating coach, Links , add a commentWell, it’s terribly manipulative and teaches you to lie to women, but I do want to know “how to get a pretty stranger at a beach to put suntan oil on you”. The Pick-Up System No Girl Can Resist
Use its techniques and you will later HAVE SEX WITH HUMAN BEINGS.
*Results not guaranteed
Your thoughts?Daygame, part 2. Newbies only. February 20, 2008
Posted by Niels in : Dating coach , add a commentLast week’s day game session was great, but there’s more I want to teach. This week: the advanced stuff. Playful approaches, eye contact magic, and more…
The girl of your dreams is waiting for you, but not in the drunken sausagefest that is the Seattle bar scene. That smart, sassy, sexy financial analyst isn’t spending her weekends getting drunk at the bar and hanging off random guys.
You’ll find her somewhere else. Maybe you’ve already seen her. At the supermarket, at a coffeeshop, or maybe just walking down the street. She has a life, after all, and can’t be bothered to go out and get drunk every weekend.
This Friday, learn to meet people during the day. I’m keeping the seminars newbies only, however. If you’re experienced, if you’ve already found a path that works for you, don’t bother showing up.
If you’ve attended before, we’re switching rooms. We will be in the smaller room, which doesn’t have a window, so it will be a little harder to get someone’s attention to let you in. Good luck.
I’ve rented a room again at Solid Ground (formerly the Fremont Public Association) where we can have some privacy. Plus, the money is going to a good cause. Come around to the back and knock on the back door.
1501 N 45th St.
Seattle, WA 98103
As before, the evening is “pay-what-you-can-afford”. Hopefully I’ll remain motivated to keep doing this, no one will be excluded because they can’t afford it, and we’ll all live happily ever after. This is your only chance to work with me for much less than my usual $200/hr. Also, bathrooms are out of order, so take care of that before you come.
See you this Friday, Feb 22, 7-9pm! If you haven’t attended before, RSVP to me by email.
-Niels
P.S. Newbies only, as always.
Your thoughts?Daygame secrets. Newbies only. February 12, 2008
Posted by Niels in : Dating coach , add a commentThe girl of your dreams is waiting for you, but not in the drunken sausagefest that is the Seattle bar scene. That smart, sassy, sexy financial analyst isn’t spending her weekends getting drunk at the bar and hanging off random guys.
You’ll find her somewhere else. Maybe you’ve already seen her. At the supermarket, at a coffeeshop, or maybe just walking down the street. She has a life, after all, and can’t be bothered to go out and get drunk every weekend.
This Friday, learn to meet people during the day. I’m keeping the seminars newbies only, however. If you’re experienced, if you’ve already found a path that works for you, don’t bother showing up.
If you’ve attended before, we’re switching rooms. We will be in the smaller room, which doesn’t have a window, so it will be a little harder to get someone’s attention to let you in. Good luck.
I’ve rented a room again at Solid Ground (formerly the Fremont Public Association) where we can have some privacy. Plus, the money is going to a good cause. Come around to the back and knock on the back door.
1501 N 45th St.
Seattle, WA 98103
As before, the evening is “pay-what-you-can-afford”. Hopefully I’ll remain motivated to keep doing this, no one will be excluded because they can’t afford it, and we’ll all live happily ever after. This is your only chance to work with me for much less than my usual $200/hr. Also, bathrooms are out of order, so take care of that before you come.
See you this Friday, Feb 15, 7-9pm! If you haven’t attended before, RSVP to me by email.
-Niels
P.S. Newbies only, as always.
Your thoughts?An eventful few days February 11, 2008
Posted by Niels in : Personal, Work , add a commentIt’s been a hectic few days. Spoke at Gonzaga Thursday, home on Friday just too late to miss Obama’s speech, but just early enough to grab a couple hours of sleep before running a Friday seminar and meeting a friend after. Saturday was spent caucusing, followed by speaking to the Seattle Lair (very clear now that my target audience is somewhere else, don’t know where yet) and a last minute mad dash to Value Village to find a costume for the House on the Hill’s first ever Eighties Extravaganza (photos coming). Sunday was more sedate, sleeping in before setting up the “cardio theater” for some bike time while watching Hard Candy (disturbing), accidentally being a douchebag to a friend (reparable, maybe, hopefully), then going to a bartending flair competition (awesome).
Lessons learned:
From Gonzaga: The speech went well, especially considering that it was the largest audience I’d done exercises with and a completely new demographic (including one girl who fainted). I wasn’t left with the all-over glowing feeling afterwards that I was hoping for, however. I think the difference is in my audience - my usual clients have made social improvement a huge priority in the life, and the gratitude I feel from them reflects it. Reaching out to a more general audience, I’m going to get a much more sedate “well, this is interesting, and could maybe be useful” attitude. Craig told me he had the same experience when he was speaking professionally, and it made it really hard for him to market himself. I can see that. If I attack a wider audience, most of my audiences will be just fine even if they never hear me speak. On the bright side, I get results, as two girls in the first session met and decided to be roommates, while two girls in the second session became new instant best friends. That was nice.
From the caucus: What a clusterfuck of democracy. It was a cool experience, and I’m glad I went, but I can see the caucus being much more effective when there are only 1000 people in the entire state. There was far less arguing than I was hoping for (one 1-minute speech for Clinton and one 1-minute speech for Obama? what a ripoff!), nearly zero undecided voters, and I got the impression not many people were much more informed than me. And I’m fairly uninformed. But it was a great experience overall, with hundreds of people lined up around the block, and I’m the first alternate delegate behind my roommates for the next caucus level.
From the party: Be polite to police officers. Apparently our neighbor has very sensitive hearing, the officer who came to check out our “noisy party” said she had to park her car, roll down the window, and then listen for a few minutes to hear the music. She was very understanding, we hope our landlord will be as well, and a good time was had by all.
Bartending flair: So sweet. Craig and I met the competition winner from two years ago and after throwing limes at him while he was competing (he asked for it. no really, he did), hung out with him for the play-by-play for the final top competitors. Apparently some of the guys are required to compete in flair competitions by the terms of their visa - the US has plenty of bartenders, they have to prove that their job is special…
Your thoughts?Hello Gonzaga February 7, 2008
Posted by Niels in : Work , 1 comment so farI’m speaking at Gonzaga University today. Two 2-hour sessions, up to 200 people per session. That’s big. I really, really, really want this to go well…
Your thoughts?