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Back to my roots January 22, 2008

Posted by Niels in : Work , 1 comment so far

I’ve got an idea for a Facebook app, so it’s back to my programming roots. I haven’t done any serious programming since high school. PHP, be gentle.

I put together a “Hello world” Facebook application with the assistance of Facebook’s tutorial. It only took about four hours, though a bunch of the time was due to discovering the hard way that my webhost’s online document editor is buggy. Damn you and your GUI, siteground.com! I think I’ll be switching to bluehost eventually…

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Why evolution favors the foolhardy (but only if you’re a guy) January 21, 2008

Posted by Niels in : Life, the universe, and everything , 2 comments

The recent talk about pairbonding at the Pacific Science Center made me reread an even better article, Is There Anything Good About Men? by Prof. Roy Baumeister of Florida State University.

Though DNA analysis (for example, comparing the genetic variability in the Y chromosome - inherited from the father, vs. mitochondrial DNA - inherited from the mother), scientists have found that we’re descended from about twice as many women as men.

In other words, historically, the reproductive situation was vastly different for women and men. While the average women will have the opportunity to have children, men had to do much more to differentiate themselves to end up in the select group of “reproducers”.

For men, the outlook was radically different. If you go along with the crowd and play it safe, the odds are you won’t have children. Most men who ever lived did not have descendants who are alive today. Their lines were dead ends. Hence it was necessary to take chances, try new things, be creative, explore other possibilities. Sailing off into the unknown may be risky, and you might drown or be killed or whatever, but then again if you stay home you won’t reproduce anyway. We’re most descended from the type of men who made the risky voyage and managed to come back rich. In that case he would finally get a good chance to pass on his genes. We’re descended from men who took chances (and were lucky).

So high variance in male traits and behaviors is much more highly rewarded than high variance in female traits and behaviors. And this is where statistics makes things interesting:

A pattern of more men at both extremes can create all sorts of misleading conclusions and other statistical mischief. To illustrate, let’s assume that men and women are on average exactly equal in every relevant respect, but more men at both extremes. If you then measure things that are bounded at one end, it screws up the data to make men and women seem significantly different.

Consider grade point average in college. Thanks to grade inflation, most students now get A’s and B’s, but a few range all the way down to F. With that kind of low ceiling, the high-achieving males cannot pull up the male average, but the loser males will pull it down. The result will be that women will get higher average grades than men — again despite no difference in average quality of work.

The opposite result comes with salaries. There is a minimum wage but no maximum. Hence the high-achieving men can pull the male average up while the low-achieving ones can’t pull it down. The result? Men will get higher average salaries than women, even if there is no average difference on any relevant input.

Thanks to my friend Eric at ApproachAnxiety.com for tipping me off to this article.

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Sultry Science at Pacific Science Center January 18, 2008

Posted by Niels in : Personal , 6 comments

I went to the Pacific Science Center’s monthly Science with a Twist nerdfest today. $15 gets you a free drink, a bunch of food and chocolate, a chance to run around a children-sized museum, a lecture on the evolutionary aspects of pairbonding, and a nausea-inducing KISS laser show. Sweet.

The lecture on pairbonding was the most interesting part. Apparently men go into hormonal cycles that synchronize with the women they’re living with. I disagreed with the researcher’s conclusions (he begins from the assumption that monogamy is a cross-cultural human trait - dubious, to say the least) but it was fascinating data.

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Tests and attitude - learn to deal with them this Friday! Newbies only. January 17, 2008

Posted by Niels in : Dating coach , add a comment

In Way of the Superior Man, David Deida says:

The most loving women are the women who will test you the most. She wants you to be your fullest, most magnificent self. Anything less than that she will torment. And, as you know, she’s quite good at it. Yet, if your purpose is to be free, you wouldn’t have it any other way.

This week I’ll be focusing on something I’ve wanted to do for a while. You’ll learn to roll with the punches when people take aim at your weak points, to have fun when you get attitude, and to deflect it when someone’s trying to insult you.

Lose the idea of throwing insults back and forth. We’ll be having fun and learning to confidently flirt and play back at other people. By the end of the night, you’ll be looking forward to those times when you get tested - after all, it’s just another opportunity to show off your confidence.

I’ve rented a room again at Solid Ground (formerly the Fremont Public Association) where we can have some privacy. Plus, the money is going to a good cause. Come around to the back and knock on the back window or the back door.

1501 N 45th St.
Seattle, WA 98103

As before, the evening is “pay-what-you-can-afford”. Hopefully I’ll remain motivated to keep doing this, no one will be excluded because they can’t afford it, and we’ll all live happily ever after. This is your only chance to work with me for much less than my usual $200/hr. Also, bathrooms are out of order, so take care of that before you come.

See you this Friday, Jan 18, 7-9pm! If you haven’t attended before, RSVP to me by email.

-Niels

P.S. Newbies only, as always.

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Now enjoy the experience of being put on hold - without a phone! January 15, 2008

Posted by Niels in : Personal , 1 comment so far

While on hold to report a water main break, a recording of Seattle Mayor Greg Nickles informed me that all the fantastic music I was listening to is also available online, at http://www.seattle.gov/onhold/! I was just thinking about how much I enjoy the experience of being on hold and wondering if there was any way I could experience it more often. Isn’t technology wonderful?

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