When in France… April 18, 2007
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… remember that “C” stands for hot. Damn near burned my fingers off.
More dating advice coming soon. It’s tough to keep up on the road. Particularly after boiling your fingers.
Your thoughts?Bonjour Paris! April 16, 2007
Posted by Niels in : Personal , add a commentIt’s cheaper to pay to travel to Paris and get a hotel there for three days than it is to stay in London. So I’m going back to Paris. Frenchies, hide your eclairs!
Your thoughts?I’m banned in China April 14, 2007
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Apparently the Chinese don’t like sex.
Ask Niels: My friend is flirting with my crush! April 12, 2007
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Theres a guy I’ve had a thing for since late September. He and I had connected greatly and we started hanging out everyday after school. We would usually flirt then when there weren’t people staring at us. Recently, one of my best friends started flirting with him, a lot. I had talked to her about it, but she it didn’t seem to effect her. Now, she has a boyfriend, but she still flirts with that guy I like. I’ve tried telling her it made me uncomfortable, and she apologized, but she isn’t stopping! He flirts back, but he told me he didn’t feel for her. She ALSO butts in whenever I’m talking to her, so that’s also a problem. What would you suggest I do? A response would mean a lot to me, seeing as how Yahoo! Answers only brought flamers.
-Ann
Sorry Ann, but there’s a statute of limitations on potential relationships. If you two have been flirting for SIX MONTHS and neither of you has had the balls to make a move, then it’s open season for anyone else. Especially if this someone else just enjoys flirting for the fun of it. I flirt with little old ladies all the time. Flirting is fun. It makes people feel good.
If you had just met this guy and were working on making something happen, then I would tell you to reevaluate what kind of a friend you’ve got. But you’ve let months and months of opportunities go by. You don’t get a perpetual monopoly on flirting with this guy.
And even if you two were dating, you should be confident enough in yourself and your relationship to not mind when other people flirt with your guy. I like it when other guys flirt with a girl I’m dating. I know they’re not going to take her away from me, it reminds me how sexy she is, it reminds her how sexy she is, and once they get her all turned on, I get to reap the benefits.
Be a better flirt than your friend, hook this guy, and then all of you can flirt together. Oh, and while you’re at it, start flirting with her boyfriend…
Your thoughts?London baby! April 11, 2007
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Oh London, despite your surfeit of bland, prepacked food, your balmy, grey weather, and your overpriced… um, everything, I just couldn’t keep myself away. Perhaps I should have been tipped off by the fact that every cute girl I met last time was from another country, but no matter. I’m back, and I’m going to have fun here if it kills me!
Being on my company’s expense account for the next week and a half is probably going to help a lot. It’s about the only way I can afford to stay in this city anyway.
We’re running an Art of Rapport workshop this coming weekend, followed by Art of Attraction the weekend after. With the students we worked with last time, these two workshops should just about triple London’s male sexiness level. Oh, you lucky London girls!
Your thoughts?