Dating resources for women? March 31, 2007
Posted by Niels in : Other , trackback
I have an ex-nerd friend who follows your blog and myspace page; he mentioned that you were going to be in Phoenix this weekend as a dating coach. Naturally I was suprised, having watched Beauty and the Geek after meeting Pio at a jello wrestling party in Bethesda.
I was curious, is there an equivalent to the Art of Attraction, for women? And where do you plan on taking your Phoenix “students” out to practice these tricks of the pick-up trade?
-Dee
I think the reason Art of Attraction exists is because the average woman is more socially aware than your average guy. Most men are playing catch up. That said, there are a lot of similar resources out there for women. You’ve got The Rules, Christian Carter, Love Tactics, Why Men Love Bitches, Technique of the Love Affair, “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”, etc. However, I think the best resources for men (Art of Attraction and Art of Rapport) are better than the best resources for women. I’m in the process of reading The Rules right now, so I’ll be better able to comment in a few days.
As for Phoenix, we went to Fashion Square Mall. The nice thing about that mall is that women’s wedding rings are so huge you can see them from the other side of the building.
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Women do not need to know the art of attraction it is primarily built in. A women with a rating of 5 can get a man with a rating of 9. I have seen this before, over and over again. Like what Niel Hoven has said, the men who are in pick up are looking for that one in the million not the average women but something totally spectacular. If you are looking for that, not the consumer version of Mr. Right, than look into the mens version of art of attraction after going through the videos and etc. You can easily see what men are using to attract women…
To a person with no integrity,
I really hope you are unsuccessful in your “pursuit” of women. Objectifying people with numbers… you must not have the interactions that allow someone to recognize women as complex and beautiful people.
Different qualities are positive or negative depending on the values of the seeker. In this scale of value, everything is relative, even appearances.
People are not out to be judged and objectified. I hope you use this rating system in comforting self-pitty, from feelings of injustice. Perhaps you are a “5″ in appearance. Personally, I would rate you a “3″ in personality.
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In response to the initial comments,
I have recently had this particular discussion with a guy I work with a can sympathise with your concern. However, I do have to ask whether you have ever formed a first impression of someone as you have walked past them (e.g. you have avoided someone because they looked scart) because I am yet to find a person that hasn’t. Though this numerical system may seem a little derogatory I’m sure you’ve may comments with a negative insinuation towards someone in the past as well.
Those in glasshouses shouldnt throw stones.
Kind Regards,
A female bystander
when u come after ill tell u ok come frist