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Home is where the heart is September 6, 2006

Posted by Niels in : Personal , trackback

While wandering the aisles of the supermarket today, I considered buying a half dozen bagels.  I like bagels with cream cheese for breakfast - but I’ve already got more bread than I can use for my peanut butter and banana toast.  And I like bagels with melted cheddar cheese and tomato for lunch - but I never make lunch, because I buy it at the company cafeteria during the week and I’m in the city on the weekends.  Bagels make a good surrogate bun for veggie burgers, but my pasta fixin’s go bad if I don’t eat them quickly enough.  So I put the bagels back on the shelf.

And that’s when I realized why I’m not totally happy here.  My existence feels so temporary.  My apartment is totally bare.  I’m only there for a few hours Monday-Thursday between work and sleep, and I spend a lot of those hours grocery shopping or doing laundry.  On the weekends I couchsurf around New York City.

I’ve made so many great new friends here, and reconnected with some wonderful old ones, but without a place to call home I still feel a sense of loneliness.  It’ll be good to be back in Berkeley.

Comments»

1. Anonymous - September 10, 2006

After awhile, home becomes where your hat is hung.

2. Niels - September 11, 2006

What if my hat is hung like a parakeet?